Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things. – Frank A. Clark
Let’s start with the above thought. People think of big, doing something big, achieving big, however, they just don’t realize those big things are also made up of many small things. Like a vehicle, let say a car, is made up of many small things, and a single piece missing won’t let the car called as ” The Car “. Yeah, I know, that there would be some parts only for attractive look and they don’t impact much if they are missing, but then it is not perfect Car, right?
Likewise, we have many things which we don’t think as important but actually, they are, which can make our life a near to perfect one ( as no one is perfect in this world ). But at least we can strive to be one, shouldn’t we?
I’m not suggesting to neglect big things and run towards small things after reading this blog. One should definitely be dreaming about achieving big, but just want to suggest that while putting efforts for that big, don’t forget about the small things. The little things which can make you happy, moreover, the people around you happy. Though there will be some exceptions, the human being can’t live single in his whole life. He needs someone to share the love, the joy, the moments of working that he enjoys, some bad & sad moments to lighten up his heart and get some suggestions to resolve the issues he is facing. When those people are around we feel good, comfortable. So if they let us feel that way, shouldn’t we care about them? Is it a good thing that your people care about you, and you are running day & night towards the big thing you want to achieve without caring for anyone? Someday they will get tired of it. some might be able to tell you that you just don’t care about them. Some may not gather that courage to tell you but they will try their best to tell you indirectly, but when they realize that you are not getting the indication which they are trying to show you, either they will stop those efforts or will leave you eventually. Some will stay forever with you, whatever you do, you care for them or not & these type of people are the rarest & only if you are lucky I must say. When you realize that thing, its best to hope that it’s not that late that they don’t care about anything anymore.
So the key point here being suggested is, run like a dog chasing your big dream, but always remember there were people holding your back when you tried to climb that high Hill, when you fell but they saved you, they were there being your rope towards the peak, they were there being your guide sitting beside you, caring for you.
Big time Question – Do you care for them? If not already, then :
Be happy in little things. Care for your family, friends and other people that care for you, love you. Talk with them whenever you have time, ask them about their life, about their problems and if you think you don’t have that time then you must reserve some, from your day for them, because they’re so valuable to you but you just don’t realize it until the time comes. So let them know, let them feel the importance of them in your life, how much you need them, through various ideas and on various occasions you can celebrate on. So that they will put more efforts to you and that goes on vice versa, like a phrase – give respect, take respect. Give them surprises sometimes, not only surprise gifts but you know, for an example, you can learn something new, like to play the guitar and in a family function you can play it on the stage and surprise them all. How do you think of it?
We can think of another example here. There is filmmaking going on in a studio. What do you observe there? Everyone is doing their job. Even if it is not noticed, but we can observe that everyone in there has importance. Even from the director of the film to the spot boy. Director is the key person there, still, he can’t do everything. He can’t work like spot boy. He can’t work on lights or music or camera. There will be the person for each of that facility to work on it as per the instructions of the director.
The summary here is everyone has importance, sometimes we can see and observe it, sometimes we can’t until it is shown. Like Superman or Supergirl were also living common lives and were facing issues as every common man does at work or in their personal life. Even after they revealed themselves, they had problems to face and they were suggested to not go fast on those things and focus on small things by common but successful people…
So if the ( fantasy character ) persons having superpowers, still had to work on those little things having big importance, then why shouldn’t we ???
Are you going to work on such little things ?? Which can make you and the people around you happy ??
Let me know through the comments.
Thanks…
ShabdarthJeevan